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Culture and Travel Housemanship Life in Medicine

Work & Life Lately

Happy new year, lovelies.

Allow me welcome you to your best year yet.

Yes, that’s how I feel about 2019.

In the days and weeks that I haven’t put up a blog post, a lot has happened revolving around work and life generally.

My last blog post was about my internal medicine experience and there was a lot of cheers to my tenacity, and I earned a community of friends and family who were counting down with me to the end of the posting.

Weeks after I made the post and had most of my seniors at work, who are thankfully my friends also, read the post, one said to me, ‘You better go and tell your blog readers that you are suffering now. You had not gotten the real taste of Renal when you made the post.’

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Housemanship Life in Medicine

An Ode To The #LOML

Baby,

It is exactly one year since you asked me out and I said yes.

I was excited and tagged the day “the best day of my life yet,” especially as I have had a crush on you since childhood.

I was made to wait out adolescence and become an adult both in head and at heart before we could begin dating.

So, I said yes, amidst the feelings of excitement, accomplishment, the uncertainty of what the future holds, and fear of the enormity of the task of being your sweetheart.

Three months ago, we began courting when you put a ring on it and that marked a new beginning for us.

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Culture and Travel Housemanship Life in Medicine

Living & Working In Ile-Ife, Nigeria

Guys!!!! I had to write. And you need not say, I know I have been off this space (and social media) for a good while. I missed y’all. Did you miss me too?

I blogged about my new job here, and mentioned how housemanship can be stressful and time demanding, and even queried how often my showing up on the blog would be afterwards.

My first two weeks were hell! Literally. I barely had a life of my own. I was either in the ward, in the call room, in the theatre, in the laboratory (checking results) or seldom in the kitchen trying to grab dinner – call food.

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How To Keep Your Dreams Alive & Rekindle Them In Dark Times

It is my second week at work. I am gradually finding my way into the hearts and spaces of more persons.

Before now, his name is only a name I hear around; I am yet to put a name to the face or have a conversation with him.

We are sitting in the same consulting room now. I am studying to pass time. He is clicking away at his computer.

This is when we have our first conversation.

“Are you preparing for an exam?”

“Not exactly. Studying to keep busy,” I reply dryly.

“I can’t remember the last time I picked up a text, let alone study to keep busy,” he reveals.

I ask him if he has specialized. With an embarrassment that is hard to conceal, he says he hasn’t.

No surprise here. I might have rightly guessed so.

I probe further.

“Where would you have loved to specialize if you did?”

“Public health.”

“Well, I only wrote Primaries once,” he adds a bit too rushed.

I take note of his attempt at evading the question.

He tells me his job (working in a private hospital) sparingly gives him time and explains how so. I can understand. I have been around a while and listened in on conversations. But beyond empathy, I must help him see a way out of the gloom that is snuffing the life out of his dreams – and self, insidiously.